Why social media algorithms hurt after a breakup

You’re heartbroken, and you’re on Instagram. You type in your ex’s name through tears in the search bar. It was a messy breakup; you squint so you can’t see whether they archived photos of you two, and with shaky fingers, you tap their profile and unfollow them. The next day, you see a tagged photo of them at the top of your feed. Their friend — who you still follow — posted it. Once again, you’re in tears. You’re spiraling. How did this happen? SEE ALSO: Social media dos and don’ts after a breakup Likely, “the” algorithm. Across the internet, users have complained about being confronted by profiles and memories they’d rather not see. If that’s happened to you, you’re not alone — researchers spoke to Mashable about why this happens, and what you (and the platforms) can do about it.How do algorithms work?Social media algorithms are complex, and the platforms don’t reveal a lot about their inner workings. What we do know is that social media networks rely heavily on who you interact with; Instagram, for example, states that its “algorithm relies on ‘signals’ based on how you interact with the app, and how other people interact with you.” The posts you see depend on who you engage with — your “network,” naturally.A lot of algorithms make assumptions based on who you’re interacting with, often for months or years, data scientist Kristine Snyder told Mashable. If suddenly you don’t want to act with one or more people you shared a…Why social media algorithms hurt after a breakup